tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46061300754030239542024-02-19T03:31:43.104-05:00Musings on mamahoodAbout mothering, breastfeeding, life in general - the ideas that come into my head and the issues that get me fired up enough to give up sleep to write this while everyone else is tucked in bed.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.comBlogger107125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-2551112210741124582011-01-26T19:52:00.002-05:002011-01-26T19:52:26.891-05:00I've movedI've moved the blog over to it's own url: <a href="http://www.mamabear.ca%20/">http://www.mamabear.ca </a>and finally took Dan's advice to go to wordpress too. Come on over!<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com41tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-6955288812480056062010-06-10T22:21:00.001-04:002010-06-10T22:21:55.240-04:00Three car trips, three conversationsIsabelle: Mom, I'm tired of life. Everything is the same every day, all the time.<br />
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Me: (suppressing the mother of all eye rolls) It's the end of the year and I think everyone is tired out. Summer will be here soon and everything will be different again.<br />
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Isabelle: Life is boring. That's why. Boring, the same thing. Why? <br />
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Me: (unable to suppress myself anymore) You're 6. You're too young for an existential crisis. <br />
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Isabelle: What's existentional? And 6 is not young mom... it's very OLD. <br />
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Me: (TURNING ON THE RADIO.)<br />
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Me: What's that smell? <br />
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Tom: I dunno. I didn't farted.<br />
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Me: Are your feet smelly? <br />
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Tom: NO! My feet are NOT smelly. They are not smelly.<br />
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Me: (knowing the smell of sneakered foot released when I smell it) Are you sure? <br />
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Tom: (sniffing his feet in the car seat)... Ah, yes. Yes, my feet are smelly.<br />
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Pause.<br />
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Tom: MOMMY!!!! STOP THE CAR - my feets are making me sick. You have to wash them!!!<br />
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Me: (TURNING ON THE RADIO.)<br />
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Isabelle: I am cheering for Italy [in the world cup]. Who are you cheering for, Tom? <br />
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Tom: I'm cheering for ME! Yay, ME!<br />
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Isabelle: (exasperated) No, you have to cheer for a team from a place.<br />
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Tom: Oh. Well, then I am cheering for Niagara Falls! [best place on earth as far as my well-travelled kiddos are concerned]<br />
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Pause.<br />
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Isabelle: Mom, is Niagara Falls in the World Cup?<br />
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Me: No, Niagara Falls is a city. Only countries have teams in the World Cup.<br />
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Isabelle: SEE - you can't cheer for Niagara Falls. You should cheer for Italy.<br />
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Tom: NO! I love Niagara Falls and I am cheering for them.<br />
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Isabelle: But they don't have a team. Or a jersey even. What are you going to wear? <br />
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Tom: [WAILING] I can cheer for Niagara Falls.<br />
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Isabelle: MOM!!! Tell him he can't.<br />
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Me: (TURNING ON THE RADIO.)<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-64338547013584246392010-05-31T11:14:00.000-04:002010-05-31T11:14:37.706-04:00Some more gratuitous chick pics<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkUMMtHu_Yw6Fgq5g_pnl0O8G-YSdXjSeC4ln-jABd28m4AuLu21J0f6lk_X2i7DKCe8vE1sxEPwB714KsLsP25bDbXwktRTebfiy7mhRUpf62PS3_NyMMxL2EWNn1WXgN7RpO_R6ExN8/s1600/DSC_3230.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkUMMtHu_Yw6Fgq5g_pnl0O8G-YSdXjSeC4ln-jABd28m4AuLu21J0f6lk_X2i7DKCe8vE1sxEPwB714KsLsP25bDbXwktRTebfiy7mhRUpf62PS3_NyMMxL2EWNn1WXgN7RpO_R6ExN8/s400/DSC_3230.JPG" /></a> </div><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEkOyOcSMqWkWeHm7OWITmfLEx89cQzbjVnkfGOY5Izib_a47qBmA25rv_bOLdVN76Ui-8bxYwtjPb7HiuQK8srq5pQsy8cXxwcF41tshKx_jgyyR3gKMXCdrZbur-2LNA8_2-_moUy_o/s1600/DSC_3237.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEkOyOcSMqWkWeHm7OWITmfLEx89cQzbjVnkfGOY5Izib_a47qBmA25rv_bOLdVN76Ui-8bxYwtjPb7HiuQK8srq5pQsy8cXxwcF41tshKx_jgyyR3gKMXCdrZbur-2LNA8_2-_moUy_o/s400/DSC_3237.JPG" /></a> </div><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj-x_xjHvWjOigzuS41wcLyaWn8CyC27Ugm_hw3i6gnsV6IKtG06EjNgUT9t5cpgCIwtSIRSkCYn4Spw9LqpG_7YDVujPn5hXHipGn8RfQm0grh4cgAvqwWqRrTEt__7d_iyEBsyGbK1k/s1600/DSC_3241.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj-x_xjHvWjOigzuS41wcLyaWn8CyC27Ugm_hw3i6gnsV6IKtG06EjNgUT9t5cpgCIwtSIRSkCYn4Spw9LqpG_7YDVujPn5hXHipGn8RfQm0grh4cgAvqwWqRrTEt__7d_iyEBsyGbK1k/s400/DSC_3241.JPG" /></a> </div><div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-66171223017287746452010-05-28T21:03:00.002-04:002010-05-28T21:39:13.382-04:00Breast Cakes<div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisr6dbJ_OrltN93GeF28IzGsE1yO6kwMpwj-HOiVtnFx7_RkbVnd1XOtz6N2DfzBKDSN88dE5gi53sdQwCmIvm_p8kdERRIUNZDUqxguRzmlzsJNo1-p-qQXRyTobWXCqArJeu6Uu0CQg/s1600/DSC_3227.JPG"><img alt="" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisr6dbJ_OrltN93GeF28IzGsE1yO6kwMpwj-HOiVtnFx7_RkbVnd1XOtz6N2DfzBKDSN88dE5gi53sdQwCmIvm_p8kdERRIUNZDUqxguRzmlzsJNo1-p-qQXRyTobWXCqArJeu6Uu0CQg/s400/DSC_3227.JPG" /></a> </div><br />
Made for a friend's stag - shhh: don't tell them I'm just practicing for World Breastfeeding Week.<br />
<div style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://picasa.google.com/blogger/" target="ext"><img align="middle" alt="Posted by Picasa" border="0" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif" style="-moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; background: 0% 50%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-3960369523306243942010-05-28T21:03:00.001-04:002010-05-28T21:04:03.819-04:00Baby Chicks (in my basement)<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZZTpYDQALC6sAxa63aHmCirKt9ZXPkdjVG-2JZrLALcMcyBAXpvUCMBMCAlp2v3jgl00v4FYUotoJpnQbFTNBfnAzaENU5o4J0or_QAPBmDnlWzYMLAuaiZ5jijeHue0UTKJ_a_Vphw/s1600/DSC_3232.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZZTpYDQALC6sAxa63aHmCirKt9ZXPkdjVG-2JZrLALcMcyBAXpvUCMBMCAlp2v3jgl00v4FYUotoJpnQbFTNBfnAzaENU5o4J0or_QAPBmDnlWzYMLAuaiZ5jijeHue0UTKJ_a_Vphw/s400/DSC_3232.JPG" /></a> </div><div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-10973683446895731852010-05-12T00:05:00.000-04:002010-05-12T00:05:40.696-04:00Wordless Wednesday: what happens when Daddy goes to the petstore "just to see"<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI7-bvRrDobkUqPh9DufWA5tnlFl2AMvmL3tbRZhC6IyGeZwoGR5HAqHYF1ctGtFjsf7uiaeiMt4zKEwqyYCw71fnCJLMfBcPzxL3lQ7yxO80bca4ujxbvoekKImqj6dcGu0qKLNrAVCM/s1600/DSC_3198.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI7-bvRrDobkUqPh9DufWA5tnlFl2AMvmL3tbRZhC6IyGeZwoGR5HAqHYF1ctGtFjsf7uiaeiMt4zKEwqyYCw71fnCJLMfBcPzxL3lQ7yxO80bca4ujxbvoekKImqj6dcGu0qKLNrAVCM/s400/DSC_3198.JPG" /></a> </div><div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-59906008689491290612010-04-20T14:49:00.002-04:002010-04-20T14:55:13.924-04:00Earth Day 2010I hadn't given a lot of thought to Earth Day Celebrations for this year - it's always a busy time of year with birthdays and events, so the Earth Day celebration often gets pushed aside. Plus, we try hard in the day-to-day to be conscious of our impact on our general environment, so many of the suggestions I read about don't really work well. Between Isabelle's Sparks and school, we're participating in two park clean-ups, so the fairly easy stuff is already covered. And falling on a Thursday where both Dan and I have several commitments means that a car-free day or activity with just Tom aren't going to happen (I could move the appointments, but the symbolism isn't worth the upheaval, forgive me).<br />
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So, this year we're going to focus on local - really local and plant some areas of our gardens with some sustainable local plants. I started last year replacing a shady area that used to have annuals in it with trilliums. After having most of them die off, I've figured out why and am going to try again. <br />
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Since our municipality started collecting compost, we've stopped doing our own composting (except egg shells). But the Star recently <a href="http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/660864">revealed</a> that not very much of what we're giving them is actually turning into usable compost. And I've always wanted to try out vermi-composting - a bonus that Isabelle and Thomas have developed a sudden (and uncharacteristic for our family) love of worms. So, we'll be setting that up in honour of Earth Day too. Just don't tell my husband: he's not a lover of worms or my projects that involve rotting garbage. <br />
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What are you doing?<br />
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ps: This post was written as a part of the Earth Day Challenge hosted by The <a href="http://canadianmomblognetwork.ning.com/profiles/blogs/earth-day-challenge?xg_source=msg_mes_network">Canadian Mom Blog Network</a> in Partnership with Mom Central, Majesta, and Fenigo.com. <br />
<a href="http://canadianmomblognetwork.ning.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="earth day" border="0" src="http://i685.photobucket.com/albums/vv218/abusymommypro/earthday2.png" width="125" /></a><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-59127594210321804192010-04-19T20:04:00.001-04:002010-04-19T20:05:16.628-04:00Art doesn't always imitate lifeIsabelle and I settled into her bed with a book she got out of the school library (ie: one that I did not have a hand in choosing). The story was roughly how being a big sister is more fun than being a baby brother. Cool by me.<br />
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In the day to day, I mostly live my life in circles where babies are routinely born at home, breastfed until they are 2 and beyond, sharing their parents bed(s). The babies in my world are carried, not strolled and their mothers worry about the pattern of their next sling, not the crib bumper. It's easy for me to believe this is the norm. I try hard when chosing books that address family to find stories that look like our home. This is a <a href="http://www.llli.org/BEC/additChildrensBooks.html">handy bibliography</a> from LLLI that I've used: not sure if there's anything more up to date out there these days.<br />
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So, page two of our happy book sees Daddy preparing a bottle and Isabelle says, "That's right - big girls eat food, but babies drink from bottles." WHAAA? Deep breath. I try not to freak out and just focus on bringing this back to our experience. "Did Tom drink from a bottle?" "No, he had na-nas: he never drank from bottles ever." "Do you think you drank from bottles?" Tough one, since she doesn't remember, but she's getting the drift of this. "No, I think I drank just milk from na-nas too.... (lightbulb) So, just the baby in the book drank bottles, our babies drink milk from na-nas." I like the way she says our babies.<br />
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Next page doesn't improve much - a separate nursery with a crib for baby. Isabelle loves the mobile! "But Tom never slept in his crib." "No - he slept with me and Daddy. And so did you. Sometimes you still do!" "Yes, I think it is nice to sleep cuddled with your Mommy." Me too, kiddo. <br />
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And so it goes through the book. The stroller. "Do all babies ride in strollers?" "Sure they do - that's how they get around when they are too little to walk!" "Did Tom always use a stroller? Do you remember his favourite place to be when he was baby?" "Oh, yes. Your red sling! He was so cute." "Yup - you rode in a sling too - Daddy carried you a lot too." "Oh really. Yes, I remember I loved my sling." (Not likely, but I'll take even contrived memory).<br />
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So, the pause, then the question. "Our family is not much like this family is it?" Well, sure they are: they have a mommy and a daddy and a big sister and a little brother. They even have an aunt. But there are lots of ways our family is different too - and I'm ok with that reminder.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-78951531846534946972010-04-09T02:37:00.004-04:002010-04-09T02:43:46.623-04:00Prideful PrejudiceHow's that for a blog post title? And after so many months of abandoning you!<br />
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So, about that, sorry. It's been busy and I am trying to sort out how to fit all the stuff I need and want to do. Writing is definitely in the 'keep' box, but it's also something that requires me to have a chunk of quiet brain space and I just haven't been carving that out very well lately.<br />
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But I'm back and I'm going to talk a little bit about judgment. Not judgment of me (knock yourselves out if you want). No - these are the judgey pants I wear out in the world and I am afraid I have order in a size 6X, pink.<br />
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We were driving down a major road recently and Isabelle spotted a young boy who was sitting in the front driver side of a parked car.<br />
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"He's in the driving seat and not even in a car seat! He has BAD PARENTS, huh Mom?" Her first instinct is a spiteful 'j'accuse' of "BAD PARENTS". Spiteful. And confident that she is right and they are wrong. I recognize the anger and confidence - 'cause I have felt it many a time, about car seat safety, about feeding choices, about discipline, about, well, pretty much anything that another person might chose that I get to know about. <br />
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Six year olds are so much about rules and categories of right and wrong - Isabelle doesn't see a lot of gray in the world. I get that: it's a stage of development, not a character flaw. I like to think I'm more subtle than that (being well past 6 and all), but my first instinct was the same. <i>Yes, yes, he does have bad parents - leaving him sitting in the driver seat while they were on the sidewalk.</i><br />
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In the next breath, I know there are a million reasons why a good parent might have allowed that. Heck, that I might allow it. So we talk about those reasons and why it's not safe most of the time, but it might be the right choice for a mommy or daddy to make. At six, she can already raise a skeptical eyebrow at me like a pro, but we decide that we can't really say that they are or not. And also, we will not be playing in the front seat in our family.<br />
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So, we kind of settle that one. Yet...<br />
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Peggy O'Mara has famously been quoted as saying that "Judgment is not always wrong" - I believe that. Human nature is imperfect and humans are vulnerable: we have a duty to protect each other. But there are so many times in my life that I feel that "j'accuse" and then the uncertain retreat and then.... do I settle on the right place before I open my mouth? For the "accused"? For my values? Does it even matter what I say when my visceral reaction is to condemn? Do my eyes speak louder than the carefully chosen words?<br />
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And which one tells the truth?<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-79401733594778301692010-03-30T01:20:00.000-04:002010-03-30T01:20:58.657-04:00You can't blow out a sparkler - my baby turns 6<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_CzIWiz51uwc9YwK3iQvW60NWIFor1nmC-roget4w_5ShP57ufyMuPE98h_AxHuRLUozE2q5AFShBtsLEJquYZiQMLBm1hWGnSLXqqX413EY5OL1YZT0rhWzoRnsK7-DVod3Eq5R7vb0/s1600/DSC_3009.JPG"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_CzIWiz51uwc9YwK3iQvW60NWIFor1nmC-roget4w_5ShP57ufyMuPE98h_AxHuRLUozE2q5AFShBtsLEJquYZiQMLBm1hWGnSLXqqX413EY5OL1YZT0rhWzoRnsK7-DVod3Eq5R7vb0/s400/DSC_3009.JPG" /></a> </div><div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-57738346833038127012010-03-25T22:24:00.000-04:002010-03-25T22:24:55.088-04:00Wordless Wednesday: Things aren't always as they seem<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtWMugbSsEFDcyDuedcB7ZmOG2DYzoghTHt6w4aC_66MGx0EtquYzWO_wfvGG2t8TE0tPMLr0Tm2OE1YiKxPJHNZkgo5Y5RVR4hQ5wxOAEb8xdhUO8b6bmVG7MFqRir80AYv-dv9-zEsA/s1600/Winter+2010+-+1386.jpg"><img border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtWMugbSsEFDcyDuedcB7ZmOG2DYzoghTHt6w4aC_66MGx0EtquYzWO_wfvGG2t8TE0tPMLr0Tm2OE1YiKxPJHNZkgo5Y5RVR4hQ5wxOAEb8xdhUO8b6bmVG7MFqRir80AYv-dv9-zEsA/s400/Winter+2010+-+1386.jpg" /></a> </div><br />You might think by looking at this that I am being mean mommy and making him pose near a tarantula. But no - he wanted to see it and this was pretty much the only time he didn't cry through this whole "fun" outing. Until that blue morpho butterfly appeared and once again struck terror in his heart.<br /><br />Niagara Butterfly Conservatory - "we'll scar them for life".<br /><br />PS: I've been neglecting you, readers, I know. Look for more posts soon. Promise.<div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-63342042049167441882009-12-02T20:39:00.000-05:002009-12-02T20:39:36.395-05:00More on Melissa & Doug recall... sighSo it ends up that the US actually does have barium limits on toys introduced as part of the Feb 2009 overhaul (you might remember it caused a huge uproar on etsy due to testing requirements that put a lot of small crafts people out of business). <br />
While the regulatory body hasn't been testing, the Canadian test results would put the toys above the current US limits as well, it's just not being enforced. I don't have the energy to retype it all and zrecommends says it best anyway: <br />
<a href="http://www.zrecommends.com/detail/melissa-doug-imaginarium-toys-recalled-in-canada-appear-to-fail-us-limit/">http://www.zrecommends.com/detail/melissa-doug-imaginarium-toys-recalled-in-canada-appear-to-fail-us-limit/</a><br />
That's likely to end up being a problem for M&D because while the testing requirements aren't in force, a company knowingly selling goods that are above the limits is breaking the law. And the line they've been giving retailers and concerned consumers is that it's only a problem in Canada and that they're "just" above the limit. Which kind of also sucks for US retailers because by extension they are also breaking the law.<br />
Did I mention before how glad I am that we don't sell these? Sigh.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-39107121954277202462009-11-29T00:22:00.002-05:002009-11-29T00:26:56.813-05:00Shit happens... too much<div>With another wave of massive recalls this week, there's lots of chatter among parents about product safety again (not that it ever really goes away). In particular, many of the parents I talked are disturbed by the Melissa & Doug recall because it's a company whose brand is focussed on the wooden toys that many parents prefer at a price that makes them affordable. <br />
Greenwashing is something that a lot of consumers are becoming increaingly aware of and particularly harsh about because it's a marketing tactic that strikes at the heart of their trust in the companies they buy from. Melissa & Doug makes their toys in China - they say that this makes it possible to sell toys at a price that families can afford and that they control their manufacturing process to prevent breaches like those that caused the massive Mattel recalls. <br />
</div><div>So, let's get it out of the way first that no product is ever going to be 100% fail-proof all the time. It's just not. Things will break unexpectedly, there will bad batches and sometimes stuff just happens. I understand and expect that when say, a high chair is recalled due to faulty design or I need to install a new latch holder on my car seat. By large, companies who have these types of recalls have followed procedure and realistically no one has made any profit off the error (maybe the industrial designer?). <br />
</div><div>The trouble with these toy paint recalls is that they expose a problem in a global supply chain that's proving very difficult to counteract. Relatively low but widespread contaimination can be dangerous very quickly for little bodies. While melamine isn't exactly good for the adults who consumed candies or other products made with the contaminated milk powder in last year tainted milk scandal, it wasn't deadly. It was deadly (or very harmful) for thousands of babies who drank it - both because they were exposed to more of it and because their bodies had a lesser capacity to deal with it. <br />
</div><div>It doesn't take much lead, barium or mercury to have an effect on a child or infant - the way children play and are meant to play with toys means that they are greater risk of contamination upon contact. While national limits vary, the WHO established in 2003 that there are reasonable levels for these and other heavy metals in children's items. <br />
</div><div>That doesn't answer the question of why it seems to be so difficult to rid children's products of these dangerous heavy metals - it just explains why it's important. <br />
</div><div>To understand why lead and certain other heavy metals keep cropping up, we need to understand a little bit more about how paint works. Lead chromates are added to paint to improve the tone of certain hues like yellow and orange. These same additives make the paint less vulnerable to ultraviolet light, less prone to mildew and more durable against flaking. The lead additives are also very inexpensive and thus allow the production of a similar finish for considerably lower cost. <br />
Other heavy metals have different functions - for example, barium in the form of barium sulfate is used as an inexpensive filler in paint manufacture, again allowing manufacturers to stretch the same volume of pigment over a larger area, resulting in lower costs.<br />
</div><div>Sounds great? Better performance, lower cost... what's to complain about? Well, nothing unless your kids are the ones playing with the toys in question. <br />
</div><div>Lead is a well-known neuro-toxin - causing severe illness (even death) at higher doses. At low doses, exposure result in brain damage that may be irreversible, among other symptoms. All heavy metals build up in the body over time, so that the damage is cumulative - even more worrisome when dealing with children's toys. While this week's recall of Melissa & Doug toys referred to the acute signs of barium poisoning (vomiting, diarreha, cramps), there are also concerns over the long term links of barium to development of multiple sclerosis and other auto-immune diseases.<br />
</div><div>So that explains why it's bad for your toddler to exercise her new teeth on the toy whose bright yellow colour comes from lead chromates in a barium sulphate base and why the maker of the paints might have an incentive to make that paint anyway.<br />
</div><div>What it doesn't explain is how a respected brand who is subject to North American rules (both technically and ethically even if they weren't) ends up buying that paint even though the financial incentive at manuacturing ought to be well outweighed by the reputational and legal risk once the products reach consumers.<br />
</div><div>Can they do better at monitoring? Probably - but the essence of the issue is that mass production reduces cost by reducing the oversight needed on any one particular item. Does Mike Rainville in Middlebury, VT know more about what happens in his plant and his suppliers' plants than Doug Berstein does? Necessarily, yes, he does - and he can act on errors a whole lot faster. Then, again, Mike Lee at Sarah's Silks produces some products in China (and we sell them) and his dispatches from site visits show a very aware manufacturer who controls the critical pieces of his supply chain directly (ie: the dyeing) while creating beneficial economies of scale with home workers in China.<br />
</div><div>I'm not sure what the solution is, but I know where my dollars will get spent - on companies that absorb the full cost of their products, who have a personal stake in them and who mean it when they say 'from my family to yours'. <br />
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The only portals of entry are the nostrils and mouth/throat. In a global epidemic of this nature, it's almost impossible to avoid coming into contact with H1N1 in spite of all precautions. Contact with H1N1 is not so much of a problem as proliferation is. While you are still healthy and not showing any symptoms of H1N1 infection, in order to prevent proliferation, aggravation of symptoms and development of secondary infections, some very simple steps, not fully highlighted in most official communications, can be practiced (instead of focusing on how to stock N95 or Tamiflu): <br />
1. Frequent hand-washing (well highlighted in all official communications). <br />
2. "Hands-off-the-face" approach. Resist all temptations to touch any part of face (unless you want to eat or bathe..) <br />
3. Gargle twice a day with warm salt water (use Listerine or Hydrogen Peroxide if you don't trust salt). H1N1 takes 2-3 days after initial infection in the throat/ nasal cavity to proliferate and show characteristic symptoms. Simple gargling prevents proliferation. In a way, gargling with salt water has the same effect on a healthy individual that Tamiflu has on an infected one. Don't underestimate this simple, inexpensive and powerful preventative method. <br />
4. Similar to 3 above, clean your nostrils at least once every day with warm salt water, or hydrogen peroxide. Not everybody may be good at Jala Neti or Sutra Neti (very good Yoga asanas to clean nasal cavities), but *blowing the nose softly once a day and swabbing both nostrils with cotton buds dipped in warm salt water is very effective in bringing down viral population.<br />
5. Boost your natural immunity with foods that are rich in Vitamin C (Amla and other citrus fruits). If you have to supplement with Vitamin C tablets, make sure that it also has Zinc to boost absorption. <br />
6. Drink as much of warm liquids (tea, coffee, etc) as you can. Drinking warm liquids has the same effect as gargling, but in the reverse direction. They wash off proliferating viruses from the throat into the stomach where they cannot survive, proliferate or do any harm.<br />
Thank you to Mr. Delaune for passing this on to the school community (and for having the foresight to hire an additional custodian!).<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-73457375916280534042009-10-22T19:16:00.001-04:002009-10-22T19:16:44.325-04:00Breastfeed your children - especially this flu seasonLet's call it H1N1 day at the doudoubebe.com blog :). Here's La Leche League Canada's <a href="http://d.yimg.com/kq/groups/12235803/162449604/name/H1N1%20Press%20Release%20Breasfeed%20Your%20Child%20for%20H1N1%20Protection">press release</a> on breastfeeding and the swine flu.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-84397092790167664122009-10-22T18:52:00.000-04:002009-10-22T18:52:52.936-04:00Does the Vaccine Matter? - The Atlantic (November 2009)There are a lot of articles out there right now about H1N1 and vaccination in particular. With the approval this week of Canada's H1N1 vaccine, the time for decision-making has come for many of us still on the fence. I've been doing a lot of reading and thinking about this - there's plenty to.<br />
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<a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200911/brownlee-h1n1">This article</a> from the Atlantic offers some good and original insights - not so much into the decision about this particular vaccine, but just in general about how we approach pandemics and what that might mean at a macro-level. Read <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200911/brownlee-h1n1">it</a> - really before you make the call (or even if you have).<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-72913512868217082832009-10-05T23:20:00.002-04:002009-10-05T23:22:37.765-04:00Guess who is in the Canadian Family Toy Guide?Oh, yeah, baby - that's us in <a href="http://www.canadianfamily.ca/inthisissue/november09/">there</a> with Maple Landmark's fabulous, all natural <a href="http://pz7cg.es5mp.servertrust.com/Montogomery-Schoolhouse-Maple-School-Bus-p/mpl-sch.htm">Maple School Bus</a>. <br />
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On newsstands across Canada now! And to top it off, it's up just in time to launch with the new site design at <a href="http://www.doudoubebe.com/">doudoubebe.com</a>.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-63322698539781452102009-10-04T10:00:00.005-04:002009-10-14T15:28:55.975-04:00Forget goblins: it's the (Nestle) candy that should really scare youA lot of attention has been focussed on the Nestle boybott following a firestorm around a PR junket. I'll let Annie at <a href="http://www.phdinparenting.com/#atssh-twitter%2Cfacebook%2Cstumbleupon">PhD in Parenting</a> tell the story. I've been heartened by how questions I've gotten about the boycott and reasons behind it. With Hallowe'en coming up, many households are thinking about stocking up on candy - if you're paying more attention to who makes your chocolate these days, you'll no doubt begin to realize that Nestle has much of the market concerned in the typical Hallowe'en candy area. <br />
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October 26 to November 1 has been designated Global Nestle-Free Week. Even if you don't boycott Nestle the rest of the year, consider it for just this week around Hallowe'en. Information on how to maximize the impact of your participation can be found at <a href="http://www.infactcanada.ca/Nestle_Boycott.htm">INFACT</a>.<br />
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To avoid Nestlé, you need to not only avoid Nestle labelled products, but also Crunch, Cailler, Galak/Milkybar, KitKat, Quality Street, Smarties, Baci, After Eight, Baby Ruth, Butterfinger, Lion, Aero, Polo and Frutips. It's a long list and it gets confusing. Infact Canada maintains an on-going list and information on the Nestle boycott <a href="http://www.infactcanada.ca/nestle_boycott_product.htm#Canada">here</a>.<br />
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After you look at that list, you might wonder whether it wouldn't be easier to just list the things that you can give out. Here are a few ideas:<br />
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- ok, so toothbrushes and apples are likely to get your house toiletpapered. You might get away with stickers or colourful erasers. How about play dough? The big <a href="http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2264671&CAWELAID=107526969">Play-Doh</a> manufacturer makes tiny containers or you can get in touch with the nice folks over at <a href="http://www.dirtydough.ca/">Dirty Dough</a> for a natural product. For something truly local, try <a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Play-Dough">making your own</a> with the kids. <br />
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- check out local chocolate makers who make high quality yummies right in your community. My favourite in our neck of the woods is <a href="http://www.sittingaroundeatingbonbons.com/">Sitting Around Eating Bonbons</a> . She makes delicious, special chocolates in her tiny little shop - and the only guilt is about my diet with the organic, free trade yumminess.<br />
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- if you just need something you can pick up at the grocery store, try Mars products (which include M&Ms as well Mars, Twix and others). Jelly Belly beans are also a long-time favourite here. Now, these brands aren't fair trade compliant and they may contain stuff (like artificial colours) that aren't great for growing bodies and brains - but if it's between Twix and Kit Kat, take the Twix. Smarties vs. M&Ms, take the M&Ms. <br />
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Don't forget to have change for UNICEF available - and tell your friends why your Hallowe'en shopping has required a few extra steps this year.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-89843594535726820512009-10-04T02:47:00.001-04:002009-10-04T02:49:13.038-04:00Babywearing Hallowe'enProscratinors of the world - Hallowe'en is coming up fast and you have to start planning now if you want your costume to be less lame than last year. So I, uh you, need to get moving. Ok, we need to get moving.<br />
For those with babes of baywearing age, picking a costume can be a bit tricky. But these can actually be some of the funnest out there (if you think your baby can't be any cuter, put bunny ears on him...believe me, he will be cuter). <br />
So, a few ideas:<br />
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</div><strong>Kangaroo and Joey</strong><br />
Ok, so not exactly digging deep for inspiration, but this is a really cute one and easy to do with any front carrier. For the grown-up, get a brown/tan sweatsuit (only time this is allowed) - a hoodie sweatshirt is ideal. Then make yourself a headband with medium length brown ears. Take an old fleshcoloured nylon stocking, stuff with poly fill (or rags or toilet paper if you need to) and try off the end. Pin the tied off end to the hem of your pants so your tail sticks out the bottom of the sweatshirt. The joey is in a tan sleeper (or sweatsuit) with a headband of medium brown ears. A spot of black makeup on each nose and you're off. <br />
Credit to coolest-homemade-costumes.com for the photo. <br />
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One of the cutest costumes ever and fairly easy. You can use any front facing carrier. Dress baby up in a colourful sleeper and make/find a jester hat. Find a box about 10cm wider than your carrier and 5cm longer. Cut about a third of the box off with a round cutout at the top and bottom (for head and feet). Apply wrapping paper or paint box brightly (if you have a drooler -consider this in choosing your medium - it will right under them). Firmly tape 10cm of ribbon at each corner of the open side of the box. Once baby jester is in the carrier, tie the box on using the strips and voila - Jack in the Box.<br />
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Another idea with a front facing carrier, super easy. Using an existing hat with straps, make a cover of white felt and cut a deep zig zag pattern. With more white felt or heavy weight white fabric, cut out a piece slightly larger than the body of your carrier and create a deep zig zag border. Pin it on with safety pins. Dress yourself in all black (you are the background in this one) and baby in a soft yellow sleeper.<br />
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The idea for this one goes to Martha Stewart, but is not especially Martha-like in its rigor (and I've great liberties with the instructions!). Take an old bedsheet and cut out a hole for your head. Using a black fabric marker, draw radiating lines from the neck, then carefully draw concentric circles to join them (the web). Your little spider will be under sheet - you'll need to cut a slit for her head to stick out. Just below the slit, glue or sew on a oval "body" made of black felt or fabric. Take eight mens trouser socks (microfiber according to Martha) and stuff with polyfilling. Using safety pins on the reverse side, carefully pin and arrange the legs over the web - use hot glue to make sure they join up well with the body. A black toque tops off the look for baby. <br />
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But now that they are older, like weaning/breastfeeding discussions, everyone assumes that co-sleeping is a thing of the past. Sometimes it is, but sometimes it's not - and the new variable is that the kids have started liking to sleep together, whether one of us is there or not (we take up a lot of room I guess). It seems to be working for us now and like all things sleep related, I figure if we're all resting, I'm not going to mess with it. <br />
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So, dear readers, what happens in your house? The poll above probably doesn't have nearly enough variations - so feel free to comment below.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-22552885725342909702009-09-03T02:23:00.001-04:002009-09-03T02:23:12.852-04:00Dr. Jay Gordon - Time to Activate Your Pandemic Panic Pause Button<a href=http://shar.es/LV1h>Dr. Jay Gordon - Time to Activate Your Pandemic Panic Pause Button</a><br /><br />Posted using <a href="http://sharethis.com">ShareThis</a><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-46215751750375345642009-08-11T12:02:00.004-04:002009-08-11T12:16:12.998-04:00Breastfeeding reduces cancer & other mythsIt was widely reported that a study this week found that <a href="http://news.google.com/news?q=breastfeeding+reduces+breast+cancer&sourceid=ie7&rls=com.microsoft:en-US&oe=utf8&rlz=1I7GGLL_en&um=1&ie=UTF-8&hl=en&ei=MJiBSurGJJGHmQf5loCiDQ&sa=X&oi=news_group&ct=title&resnum=1">breastfeeding reduces breast cancer </a>risk, especially in women with a family history of the disease.<br /><br /><strong>Don't be fooled: this is a myth.</strong><br /><br />The truth is that women who do not breastfeed have a higher incidence of breast cancer. They also have a higher incidence of ovarian, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">endometrial</span> and uterine cancer - in addition to passing on that increased risk to their daughters and grand-daughters. You'll rarely see the headline you ought to see about breastfeeding, though we have few compunctions about telling parents that they will harm their children by not putting them in <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">carseats</span> or failing to keep them active.<br /><br />So here are a few more 'myths':<br />- Breastfeeding reduces your baby's risk of <a href="http://www.askdrsears.com/html/2/t020300.asp">obesity, Type I and II diabetes and childhood cancers</a>.<br />- Breastfeeding reduces Mom's risk of <a href="http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/podcast/transcript062209.html">Type II diabetes, high blood pressure and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">cardio</span>-vascular disease.</a><br />- <a href="http://www.llli.org/ba/Feb99.html">Breastfeeding promotes optimal palate development, decreasing sleep apnea and other disorders.</a><br /><br />Here's the truth:<br /><br />- Formula-fed babies are at greater risk for obesity, Type I and II diabetes and childhood cancers. These are serious conditions that can result in disability and premature death.<br />- Not breastfeeding increases your risk of Type II diabetes and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">cardio</span>-vascular disease. In addition to the attention required in the management of the disease, the risk of complications means you're less likely to be rocking your <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">grandbabies</span> and chasing them through the park.<br />- <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Bottlefeeding</span> causes the <a href="http://www.brianpalmerdds.com/">palate to be malformed</a>, increasing the risk of debilitating and possibly life-threatening conditions like sleep apnea. These conditions are life-long and are incurable, though treatable.<br /><br />Maybe it seems like semantics to you... but it's important. Mothers who go to extraordinary lengths to breastfeed their babies often have to also contend with family and health care providers who don't "see the point". While we talk a lot about how breastfeeding is a foundation of good health, there are major systemic barriers to success for the nursing pair - birth practices, sleep practices, maternity leave... these are big, broad issues that get white-washed in the "breast is best" message. <a href="http://www.normalfed.com/">Diane <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Wiessinger</span> </a>has done some great work in talking about breastfed being 'normal fed' and is a worthy read for anyone interested in how language affects our view of breastfeeding and how to address it.<br /><br />Think about it next time you see a health headline.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-28957509545560204172009-08-08T14:44:00.002-04:002009-08-08T14:53:13.477-04:00New Baby Oatmeal CookiesTo close off U.S. World Breastfeeding Week, I thought I'd post this recipe - especially since I just made a batch for a friend's newest addition. Well, for mom, not the baby - just breastmilk for her!<br /><br />These ones have <a href="http://kellymom.com/bf/supply/oatmeal.html">oatmeal</a> for more milk, whole-wheat flour to keep things moving, <a href="http://www.infactcanada.ca/fats.htm">walnuts for healthy fat</a> and finally <a href="http://www.whfoods.com/genpage.php?tname=foodspice&dbid=118">blackstrap molasses</a> and raisins for renewing iron lost at birth. For fun, you can throw in some <a href="http://kellymom.com/herbal/milksupply/fenugreek.html">fenugreek</a> or flax seeds. I don't think any of the quantities here are therapeutic, but wholesome cookies are a great, eat-with-one-hand snack for a new mom. Much better than flowers - believe me.<br /><br />2 cups whole-wheat flour<br />2 cups oatmeal (large flake is best, but any kind other than instant is ok)<br />1 teaspoon baking soda<br />1 teaspoon baking powder<br />1 teaspoon salt<br />1 cup brown sugar<br />1/4 cup tablespoons blackstrap molasses<br />3/4 cup butter<br />2 eggs, beaten<br />2 teaspoons vanilla extract<br />1/2 cup chopped walnuts<br />1/2 cup raisins<br />2 tbsp. fenugreek seeds and/or flax seeds (whole)<br /><br />Preheat oven to 350F. Mix together flour, oatmeal, baking soda, baking powder and salt. Cream brown sugar, molasses and butter until well blended - add 1 eggs one at a time. Add vanilla and mix well. Add dry ingredients and combine. Add walnuts, raisins and seeds if using. Drop by heaping teaspoonsful on ungreased baking sheet - bake 12-14 minutes until golden. Makes about 3 dozen cookies.<div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-36598865174158349602009-08-08T14:12:00.000-04:002009-08-08T14:13:04.285-04:00Thank you Canadian Family!<div style="MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFPVdzuX6wnlXGMivccbEZ-9V0Rvf-JKULxmAzlxpakeQNzFIbczIIMG_dQl2S4Hred2kKCkvWOA_JfZz7F-KzSIps_IOi6V5nfpguidLNjyLqpMSPfd02rLS5HkW73B0ph51PfxbEA-4/s1600-h/IMG00175.jpg"><img alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFPVdzuX6wnlXGMivccbEZ-9V0Rvf-JKULxmAzlxpakeQNzFIbczIIMG_dQl2S4Hred2kKCkvWOA_JfZz7F-KzSIps_IOi6V5nfpguidLNjyLqpMSPfd02rLS5HkW73B0ph51PfxbEA-4/s400/IMG00175.jpg" border="0" /></a> </div><br />Tom was very enamoured with his <a href="http://www.staedtler.ca/home_ca.Staedtler?ActiveID=24951">Staedtler</a> prize pack - even though he fell asleep on the way home from <a href="http://www.ontarioplace.com/">Ontario Place</a>, I couldn't wrench those coloured pens from his grasp. Isabelle is also enjoying her 'professiondal' pencils and has been creating lots of artwork!<div style='clear:both; text-align:CENTER'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4606130075403023954.post-81597036326897973832009-08-05T23:58:00.006-04:002009-08-06T00:15:09.673-04:00Wordless Wednesday - Breastfeeding Goddess<div><br /><br /><div><a href="http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/bilder/goddess/quer/gaia.gif"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 366px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 268px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/bilder/goddess/quer/gaia.gif" border="0" /></a><br />How beautiful is this? Check out the site <a href="http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/">http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/</a> for the whole beautiful series. </div><br /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 351px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 342px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/bilder/goddess/quer/lakshmi.gif" border="0" /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 363px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 314px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://www.breastfeeding-art.com/bilder/goddess/quer/edinkira.gif" border="0" /><br /><div><br /><span style="font-size:78%;">NB: All images are subject to copyright and the property of Akarot Illustrations - see site for more on uses.</span><br /></div><br /><br /><div></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">www.doudoubebe.com</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10758670929839461544noreply@blogger.com0